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Would You Honestly Answer This Debt Question?

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The first-year anniversary of Frugaling.org is right around the corner. It’s been over 11 months since I started this journey and a tremendous amount has changed. Today, I’m taking time to reflect on what started it all.

How much debt do you have?

When I was asked this debt question, it seemed invasive and prosecutorial. The consequences were unfathomable and unknown. I remember feeling awkward, heavy, and embarrassed. I knew the number right off the top of my head, but saying it aloud made the situation more real. The answer to that question was personal and private. I was almost ready to react in defense of my debt!

I briefly thought, “I’m a student, I need this debt! It’s necessary! Look at other people! Hell, it’s an investment in my future career!” Can’t you read and feel the dripping indignation?

The question appeared to be an oxymoron, too. Frankly, I had less than nothing. How could I have less than nothing?! Nearly $40,000 in debt between credit cards, student loans, and a car loan, I didn’t own anything. Instead, banks owned me and all my stuff. With student loans, you either pay them back, enter a special governmental program for forgiveness, or you die. There’s no option to reduce your interest for good grades or make it magically disappear — not even bankruptcy can save you.

Despite the internal pressures to keep quiet or lash out against the person asking this loaded question, I decided to follow down a different path. I responded hesitantly — not knowing the response I’d receive — but also with combination of authenticity, genuineness, honesty, and openness.

Sharing the big, scary number

I plopped out this turd of a number: “I have about $38,000 in debt right now.”

The heft of that number and all the social pressures surrounding it seemed to be lifted. The veil of privacy and secrecy around my debt disappeared. Suddenly, I felt freer. Over the coming months, I began to tell more people about my problem. Some people reacted in shock. Others shrugged their shoulders and admitted they had more than me. Seemingly, my vulnerability and authenticity encouraged others to share their honest reactions and their own debt stories.

I wasn’t alone anymore with this staggering number. I wouldn’t be kept up at night anymore. Being able to share my story enabled me to take responsibility for errors and realize how I could improve. The two combined in perfect harmony into Frugaling.org.

The pressures of society are powerful

I was worried about the stigma of debt. I noticed in popular media and casual conversations that debt was comparable to ill morals. Poorer people are vilified for making mistakes and not working hard enough. I was told that if I share my bank statements and my debt load openly that that was tantamount to indecent exposure. Maybe they’re right, but by facing my problem head on and sharing freely, something beautiful happened.

Unsubsidized Student Loan Chart Debt Question
My unsubsidized student loans were going crazy. In August 2013, they reached $25,000. By the end of April, they’ll be paid off completely!

After I started Frugaling.org, I began to pack more lunches, choose more affordable clothing stores (haven’t purchased anything in 8 months), make a budget I could actually follow, and radically reduce my debt. I made more money and paid my loans off in huge chunks.

Being honest and risking rejection was one of the most difficult things I’ve done. But I’m certain now that this openness is the strongest method and pressure to fixing a bloated, dangerous debt course. Changing the path can seem difficult — you’re going to want people supporting you. By admitting your debt load, you’ll be making your first step towards zero and have a team of people cheering you on.

Have you shared your total debt with other people? What was it like sharing your story? How do you find support in your journey back to zero debt?

Filed Under: Loans Tagged With: car loan, credit, credit cards, debt, Frugal, loans, Student Loans

How Much Could A Lifestyle Downgrade Save You?

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Before I flipped out and got all frugal on everyone, I was taking out as many student loans as the good ol’ US of A would lend me. At times, I was engaging in some questionable personal finance practices – balance transfers (aka, robbing Peter to pay Paul). I felt pretty helpless, but people around me kept saying encouraging remarks, as the bulk of my loans were for school.

Unfortunately, the investment and loan damage that’s incurred to graduate from university programs varies tremendously. Some programs are a wonderful investment of time and money – they’ll most certainly add up to a great job, benefits, and an easy retirement. Others are a bit more vague. Something just doesn’t sit right when people say one kind of debt is better than others.

In an effort to reduce as many extra costs as I can, I’ve frequently thought about a lifestyle downgrade. What is it, you may ask? Essentially, it’s about getting rid of as many of necessarily technological advances as you can and pocketing the difference in money to pay off debt. With around $30,000 in debt left to pay off, I recognize that every little bit can help. Moreover, the bulk of this $30,000 currently gets taxed at an abysmal, life-suffocating 6.8 percent, courtesy of the federal government. It’s easy to imagine selling some unnecessary creature comforts and design elements to close this gap.

There Are Assets At Your Fingertips

Man Typing On Keyboard Assets Lifestyle Downgrade
Photo: Kacper Pempel/Reuters

Many articles about personal finance stress removing your daily coffee at Starbucks or packing a lunch. These tips will certainly lead to better budgeting when you’re seriously starved for cash, but there’s more that can be done. Usually, it takes no more than a simple glance at the device you’re using to read this article. Are you using the latest technology? Is that an iPhone 5 in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?

Personally, I have a number of assets that are slowly depreciating – losing their resale value every day I own them. About a year ago I bought a white iPhone 5 and a couple years before that, I purchased a Macbook Air. The iPhone 5 was purchased on contract and cost the traditional $199 upfront, but these devices are worth WAY more than that on eBay. The Macbook Air was purchased for over $1,000. Unfortunately, the computer has depreciated quite a bit over time. But how much could I sell these items to restructure my life, spending habits, and pay off the burgeoning amount of student loan debt I have?

Choose Your Medium Wisely

When it comes to selling used goods there are three major options: eBay, Craigslist, or your local pawn store. Pawning your old accessories can be the worst option. Because there is a middleman to the transaction between buyer and seller, you’ll likely lose a lot of value. To their credit, a pawn store needs to make a profit, too – there are margins to any business. For the purposes of making the most you can off of your tech and accessories, let’s rule this out.

Next, we should consider Craigslist. In case you’ve been living under a rock for about a decade (and you will be soon by selling off all these newer technologies), Craigslist is the ultimate local classifieds and it’s completely free to buy and sell online. This method will net you the largest profit as there won’t be any commissions skimmed in the process (unlike with pawn stores and eBay). The one risk is that you’re dealing face-to-face with other people, and they may not necessarily be interested in dealing fairly once you meet in person. Similarly, you’ll likely have to spend more time responding to personal emails and arranging meetings to finally sell the item.

The last (but not least) option is eBay. The auction site has become a behemoth in the tech world. It’s by far the easiest and most populated area for buying and selling goods. As a buyer, it can be a wonderful way to find used goods at deep discounts, but as a seller, eBay is a little less friendly. For starters, eBay takes a cut every time you make a sale. Then, like the mafia, they have created one payment process that they own: PayPal. You’ll suffer another payment cut there, too. eBay ranks somewhere in between a pawn store and Craigslist for the money you’ll make, but it’s a safe platform and guarantees a sale within a certain, set period of time.

Reap Your Rewards And Pay Off Debt

Chromebook Lifestyle Downgrade
Acer C720 Chromebook

In the end, the goal is to sell off the unnecessarily advanced, profit off the difference of a lifestyle downgrade, and pay off some debt. If I were to sell my Macbook Air and iPhone 5, I’d probably net about $1,000 off the entire transaction. By selling these goods, I could buy a cheap, affordable computer and buy an older, used smartphone.

Using the same methods outlined before, I would recommend looking on Craigslist and eBay for used laptops and smartphones. The Galaxy Nexus – once the hottest phone on the market – now is a bargain at $60 used, off contract. That would take my net profit down to around $960. As a graduate student and heavy researcher, I would absolutely still need a computer for day-to-day work. The most affordable computers on the market are Chromebooks. I could easily buy a used Chromebook for around $125. After buying both downgraded accessories, I would net about $835 for loan debt.

With all lifestyle downgrades there will be sacrifices. Google Chromebooks are not fully-featured laptops and there are a number of restrictions you’ll bump up against. Older model smartphones may have worsening battery life and poor reception at times.

The question then becomes, is the sacrifice and debt payment worth your inconvenience and potential discomfort?

Filed Under: Minimalism, Save Money Tagged With: chromebooks, Craigslist, credit, debt, Downgrade, eBay, Galaxy Nexus, Google, laptops, Minimalism, school, smartphones, Student Loans

5 Problems Of Using Cash To Stay Frugal

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5 Problems Of Using Cash To Stay Frugal

Something about switching to a cash only lifestyle is screwing with me. I’m less than five days into an experiment where I’ve put away all my credit and debit cards, and replaced them with the good ol’ US dollar. There are a multitude of reasons for eschewing the digital dollar: people tend to spend more with credit, tip more with a swipe, and purchase discretionary products.

Cash should be easy. I’m looking to be more frugal, and all the research suggests that cash (which is concrete) is harder to spend. Instead, I’m floundering and fishing for ways to better acquaint to cash. The reality: I’m having some trouble with the classic currency.

1. Cash Reminds Me Of High School

It’s been a long time since I touched the green paper known as cash. In fact, I haven’t really used cash since high school. I’m a Millennial with keen eye towards the digital world. I’m an avid Mint.com user and Ally Bank customer. Something about cash just doesn’t mix.

Cash is painfully slow for tracking purchases and spending habits. Whereas credit cards feed all the spending right into my Mint.com account, I have to sift through receipts and cobble together some patterns.

2. Stores Don’t Honor Cash

While every store I’ve ever been to accepts cash; in reality, they don’t honor it. What do I mean by that? Well, cash saves corporations lots of money in transactions fees associated with swipe commissions. Visa, Mastercard, Discover, and American Express all make a cozy living through transaction fees.

When you receive 1 to 2 percent cash back on some credit card, the issuer is just cutting you in on their profits. Cash consumers get the short end of the stick, though. As I carry in my awkward wad of bills, the store clerk accepts it at the same price as credit purchases. For instance, that $60 pillow at Target costs $60 in cash and $57 for someone with a RedCard (comes with a 5% discount). And even though a major corporation loses a significant amount of profits to credit card purchases, they don’t offer any incentive to use cash.

Likely, stores still benefit from tracking credit card numbers. Even though Walmart doesn’t have a store card, they track all purchases and try to predict buying behavior in its customers. If you use the same credit card, they can effectively track your every move. Again, cash consumers are punished and receive goods at a 3% premium.

3. Cash Is Cumbersome

Maybe I’m psychologically weak or overly complaining, but I hate carrying around cash. Not only is it a flight risk – anybody can walk up to you and steal your cash – but it just fills my pockets with an unnecessary jingle that reminds me of the Salvation Army working a storefront.

With credit and debit cards, my minimalistic dreams were wonderfully clear and easy. I could reach into my pocket and quickly grab what I needed it. Now, I’m sifting through bills and change – searching for the appropriate denomination. I’m clumsy.

4. I Need An ATM

It feels stupid searching for an ATM. Everywhere I go, I’m looking for one. Even though my checking account offers free ATM withdrawals anywhere in the country, I feel held back by the need to find one.

There have been a few times where I literally ran out of money, and without an ATM visit, was unable to make a purchase. Now, if this was an unnecessary, discretionary product, this would be the perfect example of cash’s frugal ability. Instead, I’m left choosing between groceries that I can or can’t buy.

5. Where’d The Time Go?

Cash transactions, ATM visits, and spending errors (at least early on) have slowed me down immensely. I feel like I’m losing time in my life by constantly dealing in cash.

Just a couple days ago I parked in a local lot. As I made my way to the exit and payment station, I had to go into a full “cashier” lane – bypassing two “credit card only” lines that were empty. The extra time seems exorbitant and useless. I find a particular frustration with the process.

Filed Under: Make Money Tagged With: cash, credit, money

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