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Stop Predicting The Future, You’re Terrible At It!

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We humans are really good at convincing ourselves of our “upper hand” — that we can see the “truth” when others cannot. We repeat stories of winning hands, the right stocks, and big paydays with our closest friends. Examples and supposed successes of prediction are trumpeted in our skewed media landscape, too.

For instance, CNBC and other financial news networks feature stock chartists who create lavish drawings of candlesticks, moving averages, and support levels. Lines are drawn and circles made on fancy touchscreens. When a stock fails to perform as predicted, it’s written off as a statistical anomaly. And nobody returns to the err. The reality is that any stock-picking strategy is fallible because the herd knows about it (or soon will). These technical mavens’ moves are already priced into stocks.

Scientists can also be poor predictors of future technology and advancement. As an astrophysicist, Neil deGrasse Tyson, explains, “…what happens is, if you try to go too far into the future, there is no way you are going to predict the cross-pollination of ideas and fields that produce things that are not extrapolations of anything going on at that time.” He exemplifies this technological development with the iPhone, as it wouldn’t have been created without GPS satellites, cell towers, and the commercialization of space. Variables needed to coalesce and come together to make the idea possible. Predicting each of these individual components is nearly impossible.

Predictive ability chart
Variability shifts from 0 to ∞ across time. From short to long-term periods, our ability to predict what’ll happen next suffers. Also, what do you think of my chart-drawing skills? 😉

Psychologists are another fallible group that’s highlighted for near-telepathic powers. Popular culture seems to hold high esteem for their predictive abilities. They are depicted as readers and savants of the mind. Watch what you’re thinking, they might just read your body language, thoughts, and emotions! The reality is that psychologists aren’t fantastic at predicting behavior; slightly better than the lay public, but that’s not saying much. At their best, psychologists center on past behaviors as predictors of future behavior. Much like the stock chartist or scientist, psychological/behavioral prediction is sort of like analyzing an historical stock market chart and looking for patterns.

In failing to see our losses and failures of prediction, we risk creating confirmation biases. These psychological tricks of the mind make us think we are right — that our hypotheses have time and time again come true. We repress our failures in favor of successes, but in doing so, jeopardize our ability to accurately plan for the future. That’s when we stand to lose boatloads of money.

The fact is, we are fallible creatures. Seemingly, we are basically limited by the amount of knowledge available on the world. At a long enough timeline, nearly everyone fails.

By accounting for predictive limits, we can protect and preserve our wallets. Now, it’s all about what we do with this realization. These are five fast rules for managing your money without genius predictions:

1. Budget based on present day information

The present day includes your current income and expenditures. If you’re budgeting for a car, Christmas presents, or anything else, your budget should account for today’s income — not chances for the future. This will always keep you within limits. Unfortunately, many people use pay raises and predicted promotions to account for future purchases. This mentality can lead to excess debt and complicated repayment plans. Avoid the drama by budgeting based on today’s information — not what tomorrow might be like.

2. Be careful with retirement predictions

Companies like Betterment and Wealthfront have some sexy chartists! They beautifully illustrate the capability of compounding interest and continued investments in average performing stock markets. However, this tends to smooth over the swings of market swings and does not account for the unexpected. In fact, Betterment has a tool that attempts to predict with 50/50 accuracy how your money will perform over a set period, but it’s better to make consistent investments and look at the principal — not the predicted total.

3. Build up emergency funds

From a car accident to strange toenail fungus, you never know when you’ll need to pay for some extra costs. We cannot predict when an accident or the end of a job could occur. To account for our predictive inability, let’s build emergency funds. Most financial experts suggest people maintain about 3 months of solid income, which would cover expenses while you search for a new job or deal with an accident.

4. Avoid following interest rates

Tens of “online banks” are propping up with teaser interest rates. Instead of chasing the next biggest thing, stick with the consistent. For example, Ally Bank has earned my trust and respect after years of solid performance and service. This online bank doesn’t have wacky fees, gives me free checks, and pays a solid interest rate in both checking and savings. When you find a solid, long-term rate, stick with the bank. It pays to find a good company and then worry about making more income elsewhere — not following the next greatest interest rate.

5. Invest regularly – don’t chase bottoms

This tip comes from one of my hardest investing lessons. When it comes to putting money in the stock market, don’t call bottoms. Humans inability to predict is never worse than right here. If you think the market has crashed, you’ll likely be proven wrong. The stock market has tons of false bottoms and tops. Prediction isn’t generally your friend. Instead, I use average investment amounts and make regular investments. When the market suffers, I tend to invest more. But avoid the chase and focus on making consistent investments.

Filed Under: Make Money, Save Money Tagged With: bank accounts, Checking, cnbc, future, Investments, management, money, Neil deGrasse Tyson, Prediction, Psychology, savings, science

The Debt Breaking Point: A Student Reforms His Budget

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Budget College Graduate Student Loans Debt
If your budget looks anything like this truck, you’re in trouble.

As a student, we are presented a nearly blank check in the form of student loans and financial aid packages (aka, more student loans). It can be hard to resist taking out more than you actually need. But once you open the intravenous drip of federal funds, it can be hard to quit it – hard to reduce your liabilities.

A close friend of mine confided in me that he was broke. The credit card debt had taken over. It wasn’t supposed to work out this way. He had student loans, but he knew better. Something had happened; sort of inexplicable, really. His expenditures soared, but the income was stagnant.

After realizing his budget couldn’t right itself, he scrambled to find help with friends and family. Fortunately, they supported him financially and he’s been fixing his broken budget. The following are some excerpts from our conversation (via email), as he’s learned a lot about what drove him to this level.

Romantic relationships and money

Our conversation ran the gamut, but for a moment, he focused on the impact of relationships and money. Implicitly, there’s a pressure as man (whether there should be or not) to treat and offer to pay – to be a provider.

I like the thought too about expectations, the impact on relationships (if one partner has to suddenly cut back). Part of my expectation (related to gender role socialization) has made it tough for me. I’m so used to being able to buy nice things for Susie, to pay for her dinner, to treat her to nice surprises (fuck, even for little things like buying flowers).

He ran out, and in sharing this with his partner, she was surprisingly accepting, supportive, and helpful. It can be difficult to admit budgetary defeat, and the longer it goes unnoticed, untamed, and denied, the deeper the hole can become. Here are some things he learned from confronting and sharing this realization:

…She’s been great about the whole thing. I think she’s honestly relieved a bit. She’s been much better at being frugal than me (more self-disciplined and better at handling money) from day one. I think she’s been very aware that marrying me means joining with my maelstrom of ego-driven impulse buys, not effortfully considering the true cost (long term) of my purchases, whether I can afford things in reality, and my staggering student loan debt.

Dinner Budget Student Loans Debt
Shopping and going out can be easy – too easy.

Last May, I realized I was sinking, and attempted to change everything because I didn’t want my debt to destroy a loving relationship. Seemingly, by confronting and asking for support from others (emotional and/or financial), the way back can be made easier. My friend decided he needed to start from scratch and analyze the budgetary gaps where money was disappearing.

The sink is shipping… How do I take back control?

For me, I had a similar experience to your 7 day challenge. I had so many little expenditures I didn’t realize (holes in the hull of my “finance boat” if you will). I had far less variety in food while I was getting the hang of it. I made rice & beans and had it for like 6 meals. I changed a few things up, would add cheese or salsa. I would wrap it in a tortilla or just have in a bowl. And I would intersperse a McDonald’s dollar menu purchase to balance it out. But it was tough feeling like I’d failed. Tough having to tell myself no, you can’t have it. I think it helps knowing I can’t “cheat” when I have these either-or decisions to make.

As he traveled through the joys of cutting back and realizing what needed to go, the budget was pretty clear; all or nothing, he had to change. The spending couldn’t be sustained. The credit cards were maxed. The student loans were tapped.

When I had literally $0 mid-way through December, I started to realize what had to be done. And magically, I was able to change my expectations, get a roommate, cancel many unnecessary things (gym membership, no more buying expensive proteins, no more consumer reports, got Comcast to lower my cable bill, etc). I’ve been able to set up a budget and stick to it. I’ve been able to track every expense, because I finally HAVE to do this. Years of attempts and failures, but finally having “skin in the game” lead to success.

Changing, fixing your budget is more difficult than it sounds

To spout out the mantras and trite cliches that simply say, “Change your budget to take in more than you spend,” can sometimes be more difficult than it sounds.

Adjusting my budget wasn’t a small change, it’s a giant lifestyle change that’s hitting nearly every area of my life. I needed to change my workout routine since I cut my gym routine. I have to get a roommate and change my living situation. I have to get used to rarely eating out. I have to change leisure time since I can’t really afford 20$+ to take Susie and me to the theater. My choice was to bottom out with no money in May again, or finally get my shit together. And for now, I’m on the get your shit together path.

Like many who’ve participated on this site, asked me, or debated online, the line between frugality and simply stingy/cheap is sometimes a gray area. Being cheap can sometimes elicit a value question.

A big question a lot of this leaves me with is how to be frugal without being cheap. I think there is some overlap, but that they are different. Frugal to me means cutting back, often not being fully satisfied at the reward of more savings. Cheap to me often reflects a self-interested style of frugality. In my mind, I think of friends who would leave little to no tip at restaurants, try to get everyone else to pay for them, continually try to ask “are you going to finish that.” As I’m making huge changes, maybe I’m trying to find a way to stay congruent with my values in the process.

By sharing my friend’s hard lessons learned and insights along the way, I hope it gives you a window into a world. What you do with that window is yours.

Special thanks to my close friend and confidant. Really appreciate being able to share your growth and story with my readers. All names have been changed, but you know who you are!

Filed Under: Loans Tagged With: Budget, cheap, Credit Card, debt, financial aid, Frugal, graduate school, loans, management, money, relationships, student, Student Loans

A Terrific, Terrifying Article About Poverty

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Poverty House
Photo: Rennett Stowe

Today, I happened upon a wonderful article about what poverty is like. After reading it, I knew I needed to share it with you all. Poverty, debt, and working till you drop are all terribly interlinked. The following are a few highlights:

Rest is a luxury for the rich. I get up at 6AM, go to school (I have a full courseload, but I only have to go to two in-person classes) then work, then I get the kids, then I pick up my husband, then I have half an hour to change and go to Job 2. I get home from that at around 1230AM, then I have the rest of my classes and work to tend to. I’m in bed by 3.

Nobody gives enough thought to depression. You have to understand that we know that we will never not feel tired. We will never feel hopeful. We will never get a vacation. Ever. We know that the very act of being poor guarantees that we will never not be poor.

I make a lot of poor financial decisions. None of them matter, in the long term. I will never not be poor, so what does it matter if I don’t pay a thing and a half this week instead of just one thing?

Poverty is bleak and cuts off your long-term brain.

Read the article in its entirety here (it’s worth a read): Why I make terrible decisions, or, poverty choices.

Filed Under: Social Justice Tagged With: Budget, debt, jobs, low-income, management, money, poor, poverty, school

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