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Everything Must Go

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Over the last two weeks, I’ve sold much of what filled my house. I’m past the point of being frugal, and well into the world of minimalism and austerity. I mean, it’s empty in here, readers.

All of my physical books are for sale. I have a TV stand, but I sold my TV and Apple device. It’s the beginning of summer, but I already sold my air conditioner. Oh, I just sold my car, too.

With each sale, I feel this push and pull inside me; the wonderful feeling of letting go, which brings both loss and freedom. I’m free to spend the money inappropriately, but I won’t. I’m free to buy more stuff before I move, but I won’t. I’m free to feel loss, and I might.

Like a reflection of the bare rooms in my apartment, emptiness might affect me. It feels… lonely to be bare — like what I own hugs and tucks me in at night (I wish!). Everyone from my parents to random visitors have remarked at the empty nature of my home in the past. I’m curious what they’d think now.

Part of me wonders why I crave to fill every nook and cranny with goods. Why is it more natural for me to fill a house than empty it? Why do I feel embarrassed to welcome people into my home without stuff occupying the space?

I’m living with an everything-must-go mentality right now. A fire sale of sorts. And every purchase that goes against my new, frugal self seems to be in violation of my debt reduction plan. I don’t want that to happen.

I can’t predict how I’ll feel over the coming months; for now, I’m taking action to change my life. All that remains is me — that’s the one consistency. What fills my room is me — for better and for worse.

Filed Under: Minimalism Tagged With: Frugal, letting go, minimal, Minimalism, self, selling

Living In A Van To Becoming A Pornstar: Crazy Ways Students Pay Tuition

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Photo: MIT is a land-grant university.
Photo: An iconic building in the heart of MIT

Part of the fortunate few

That first day of college is burned into my memory. Mom dropped me off, and I can still feel that vague discomfort in realizing I was independent. Perhaps more accurately, I felt alone. Instead of seeing my brother every day, it was my new college roommate — a heavy metal aficionado. Despite his taste for incomprehensible music, we actually got along (I think).

Both of us had the privilege of parents who saved and paid for our college educations. My undergraduate years were financed through various investments in stocks, bonds, and mutual funds. Another way many parents save is through 529 College Savings Plans, which provide tax benefits for a child’s college education. Unfortunately, future college students don’t always have it this easy.

Suffering from rising tuition, fees, and state tax cuts

Americans are in trouble. There’s a confluence of events that’s acting as a perfect storm for adolescents: people save less than ever, tuition costs are on the rise, and state tax revenues for public education are severely constrained.

About 75% of households only have enough in savings to pay their bills for 6 months. A Huffington Post reporter interviewed one person who said,

A single mother of four living in Bangalore, Maine, Norton says she often writes checks for bills without enough money in her bank account to pay them, hoping the check won’t clear until her next paycheck arrives. Between rent, child care and other necessities, Norton says her expenses cost more than she earns, leaving her without a cushion to fall back on in case of emergencies.

Tuition fees are increasing at far greater rates than inflation. Effectively, this is stunting parents’ and future college students’ purchasing power, and leading to nauseating levels of student loan debt. The New York Times found that,

At public four-year colleges, the inflation-adjusted average annual increase has been somewhat higher, thanks mostly to state budget cuts: 2.3 percent (which translates into almost 5 percent a year in nominal terms). At public two-year colleges, also known as community colleges, costs have fallen relative to inflation, at an annual rate of 0.3 percent over the last 20 years.

A caution: these increased tuition rates do not account for greater student loan debt and the possibility of being charged upward of 6.8% active interest to be paid off after graduation. If you account for this, real tuition costs are skyrocketing. This is the burden of students, parents, and our greater society.

cost of attendance
The estimated total cost of attendance at Duke University.

The tuition is too high

At a private institution such as Duke University, you’ll be staring at a whopping bill for about $61,404 a year. Just for some perspective, the World Bank suggests that the average per capita income in the United States is $51,749. For four years at Duke, you’ll be staring at about five years of income — in debt.

Maybe you’re wondering why I chose one of the most expensive schools in the country as an example. My simple answer is twofold: 1) Duke University is highly prestigious and well-regarded by both employers and future students; 2) Two of the craziest stories come from this institution.

You won’t believe what college students are doing to make ends meet. For some, desperate times call for desperate measures. The following are 3 real-life examples of students saving and paying for atmospheric tuition costs.

Ken Ilgunas
Photo courtesy: Ken Ilgunas, writer of Walden on Wheels

Ken Ilgunas: Walden on Wheels

Ken Ilgunas had finished paying off undergrad loans when he decided to return to Duke for a graduate degree. Before starting the program, he was determined to avoid more students. In his New York Times article, Ken says,

I HAD been accepted into Duke’s graduate liberal studies program, but I couldn’t afford it. I had just paid off my $32,000 undergraduate debt, I was nearly broke, and the prospect of taking out loans was unthinkable. Going back into debt made about as much sense as running out of a burning building just to run into another.

His solution was to buy an older Ford Econoline van for $1,500 and live out of it for the duration of his schooling. Using the library for Internet, rec center for showers, and a camping stove to cook food, Ken successfully went to graduate school without accepting defeat and taking out loans.

Ken utilized his writing skills to pen a beautiful book called, Walden on Wheels. The book focuses on minimalism, living debt free, and his journey at Duke. With national attention, a New York Times article, over 300 (mostly) positive reviews for his book, and even a visit to Letterman, Mr. Ilgunas is an inspiration for vandwellers worldwide. More importantly, he did something truly extreme to avoid student loans and pay for his tuition. It worked.

Belle Knox: Full-time student, part-time pornstar

Belle Knox (her chosen pornstar name) is an 18-year-old student at Duke University, who is studying women’s studies and eventually wants to go to law school. Many of her peers pick up side jobs to pay for some odds and ends amidst piling student loans. Belle decided to take up a different line of work and searched Google for, “How to become a pornstar.”

She’s headline news everywhere. Rolling Stone calls her the “top new adult-film” actress and a “studious college freshman.” Dr. Drew featured her on his show and said he’d be, “chompin’ down on cyanide capsule right now [if I was your father].”

When Belle talks about her pornography experiences she says,

I can say definitively that I have never felt more empowered or happy doing anything else. In a world where women are so often robbed of their choice, I am completely in control of my sexuality.

From there, Belle found a talent agency and started flying across the country — mostly LA — to film scenes on the holidays and school breaks. Each scene filmed equates to about $1,000. After about 61 scenes a year, she can completely pay for her exorbitant tuition demands. She’ll avoid the fearful debt this way.

Steve Stanzak: Finding affordable housing in the library

When you’re staring at around $55-60,000 a year in total costs, you’re bound to get creative. When Steve Stanzak of New York University struggled to find affordable housing in New York City (imagine that!), he decided to go rogue and live in the library basement for 8 months.

USAToday interviewed him and they found that,

…He began spending six hours a night in the sub-basement of Bobst Library at the beginning of the academic year after he was unable to pay a $1,000 housing deposit.

He slept on four library chairs and carried vital belongings — a laptop computer, books, clothes — in his backpack. He kept other items, like toiletries and clothing, in storage lockers.

Here’s the crazy part: they caught him because he used an online journal to catalogue his journey. Imagine if they never caught him?! How long could he have managed — putting four chairs together in the place of a bed?

In a strange twist of fate, Steve was rewarded for his library dwelling when NYU offered him a free dorm room. Success!

What’s reasonable when tuition costs are unbearable?

When I searched Google for “ways to pay for college,” I got some fishy results (i.e., Forbes, Fiscal Times, and Huffington Post). Frankly, none of the articles actually help people pay for college. Most just regurgitate old information about getting financial aid (aka, student loans). The worst is the Huffington Post article, which suggests paying for college with “cash” (they must be getting creative to rank higher in searches). I would imagine most people understand that cash is a monetary tool for paying bills. Not sure who’s benefitting from that horrible advice!

I remember feeling hopeless to do anything about my student loans prior to starting Frugaling. The debt piled higher and higher — without escape or end. When I finally faced this reality, I suddenly saw a way out.

It’s easy to get desperate when you see interest-bearing accounts metastasize with ever-daunting sums. Ken Ilgunas, Belle Knox, and Steve Stanzak are three people that used this extreme fear of student loans to prevent them from falling prey to them. Question their legality, morality, and safety as much as you want, the three of them found a way to make their educational dreams a reality.

Significant student loan debt is a scary place, and it seems like these three reacted in powerful ways to stem their deficits. But it makes me wonder, is it even worth it at some point? When is a graduate degree, while in a Ford van worth it? When is it worth becoming a sex worker (aka, pornstar)?

Their stories are hard to hear though. These are the most motivated, enterprising, and smart people in our country and they’re struggling to get a top-notch education. It makes me wonder if we are making it too difficult for people to attain this level of education – preventing new leaders from finding success in our society.

This is just the start, too. As tax revenues continue to fall for public education and social inequality rises, stories like this will only increase. The United States seems to be leaving our future generation in the dust. You can’t pay for a college education with a couple simple part-time jobs over the summer. Those days are long gone.

How can you lead when you’re swimming in debt and held back from the freedom to become more than just a number to a lender?

Filed Under: Loans, Make Money, Minimalism Tagged With: Belle Knox, Duke University, education, Fees, Ken Ilgunas, Library, Living in a van, New York Times, private, public, Steve Stanzak, taxes, Tuition

Minimalism: Nothing In My Pockets

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I quite fondly remember the days when I didn’t carry anything but a house key (on occasion). As a child, I didn’t have savings, cash to carry, pens, credit cards, IDs, etc. The world was no more dangerous than today, and my pockets were empty. I remember childhood adventures in the suburbs of Pittsburgh, finding trails and paths less wandered. Friends would tag along and we’d discover and explore, all without a single thing in our pockets. As I age, I can’t help but wonder why my pockets have grown heavier with stuff.

Nowadays, I feel like I’m unfurling and unloading a mass of “necessities.” My brain tells me that all of these things I carry will come in handy throughout the day. Like a good boy scout, always “be prepared.” I regularly carry headphones, a cell phone, multiple cards and ID’s, chapstick, keys, pens, and notes. My pockets are frequently burgeoning with stuff — strange shapes created.

I know I’m not the only one. My grandmother always said, “You should carry a little cash, just in case something happens.” Even in elementary school, she imparted this standard of living. She’d suggest, “What if you need a taxi because you got lost? Or, what if you needed food and hadn’t eaten?” Cash was an out — just in case an emergency occurred.

My professors will reach into their pockets to grab larger key chains, wallets, and cash sums. The jingle is louder and they seem to have amassed more. My peers carry their clutches, purses, wallets, and bags, too. Men and women of the working world carry their packs, bags, and briefcases for a long day’s work. I’m struck by how little we had to carry as children. We could instantly step out of the house; being “prepared” was a mental state, not physical.

Frequently, I fancy the minimalist life, and try to carry less, but I can’t help but notice a discrepancy. Here I am trying to become more frugal and minimalist, but I’m carrying more than ever before. Where does need become want? What do I really need with me every day? Should I follow my grandmother’s words and carry money everywhere I go, as if I’m waiting to be attacked?! Why could I get away with nothing more than a house key as a child?

It’s easy to justify the mass grab: I have more responsibilities as an adult. The decider and chief within me argues for the stuff. It says, “You’ll need your credit card in case you get hungry, need to pay for something randomly, or anything strange happens.” Even if I take the free bus into school, I’m invariably carrying my driver’s licence, school ID, and more. Will I need to hand over my ID? Probably not. What is it about becoming an adult that becomes the justification for my outsize growth in pocket dimensions?

There’s only one conclusion in my mind: We grasp for these crutches as adults, as the fear of death seems to grow. The world is no less safe, and yet I hold onto these safety measures (especially my phone). If I leave the house without this stuff, I feel more than naked — heck, I’d rather be naked!

But every now and then, there’s an intense pleasure, joy in leaving the house with nothing but a house key (sometimes without that, even). All the “adult” responsibilities that I carry seem to be left behind — just me and the world. It’s then that I realize how splendidly simple life can be, and that those childhood adventures are always waiting. After all, feeling prepared is an internal state, not a physical one.

Filed Under: Minimalism Tagged With: adults, bags, cell phone, childhood, Consumer, death, fear, Frugal, Minimalism, minimalist, professors, Stuff, wallets

My Amazon Kindle: A Eulogy

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My Amazon Kindle is broken…

From drooling wimp to reading aficionado

I don’t think I read one required book cover-to-cover in all of high school (sorry, teachers!). I didn’t enjoy reading, much to my mom’s dismay. Spark and Cliff notes eliminated the “need” to dig through the deeper meanings with tomes like Homer’s The Odyssey. I skated through high school, inspired by my brief overviews and a charismatic charm that filled in the missing plot gaps. It mostly worked.

In college, reading for enjoyment actually clicked. My grades improved and I found extra time to catch up on what I had missed. There was a simple equation: Read more to write better. Suddenly this drool-inducing, boredom-ensuing activity became relaxing and rewarding. I saw the value of it all.

A 21st century device for an age-old pastime

The transition from book avoider to avid reader was cemented by the purchase of an Amazon Kindle in college. As a nerd, geek, and all-around techie, the Kindle was the perfect blend of generations – reading power in the 21st century. When the slimmer, sleeker 3rd generation device launched, I purchased one immediately. It’s been with me ever since.

From Costa Rica to New York City, it was always with me. I chucked it onto the kitchen table, stuffed it into my backpack, and spilled a glass of orange juice into the keys. Frankly, I treated it like another paper-based book. Despite my harassment, the Kindle followed suit and kept up with my travels. Now, around four years of age (about 40 in tech years), I regret to inform you that it’s died.

When I got to school today, it refused to turn on. I followed a number of troubleshooting guides, too – no luck. There was nothing I could do, as the screen simply wouldn’t wake up or change pictures.

This shouldn’t be my gut reaction…

You might wonder why I’m writing about an inanimate object, when I aspire and espouse for a minimalist and anti-materialist lifestyle. Thanks for keeping me honest, readers! The real reason is that the loss of one object often begets a question: What’s next?

What should I get? What will be a frugal upgrade? Should I even buy another? How about a tablet, instead? What’s my price range?

Despite the eulogy, it’s felt more like an inconvenience on the way to an upgrade – another lifestyle inflation. The rapid replaceability swept the feelings of loss quickly under the rug. As I work to right my budgetary problems, this seems like room for error. The immediate reaction to buy another something – better and possibly more expensive – speaks to a disrespect for the exchange of money.

In the past, my gut reaction would be to purchase that next new device. Instead, I’m going to wait and make a frugal, informed decision that feeds my desire to read and fuels my budget. That is what’s next for me.

When you break something, what’s your gut reaction? Have you ever immediately purchased a new item to replace the broken? Or, do you take time before buying another?

Filed Under: Minimalism Tagged With: Amazon, Books, broken, ebook, ereader, kindle, Lifestyle, Minimalism, Tech

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