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Should I Have a Credit Card If I’m In Debt?

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lg_usaa-us-airwayReach into your wallet, rubberband, or purse – wherever you stash the cash. What’s in your wallet? Personally, as a self-described “minimalist,” I have five cards wrapped in a rubberband – that’s it. No cash. No frequent shopper punchcards. Nothing extraneous.

Living cashless is freeing, and in my mind, safer. Losing a credit card is nothing. Lose the cash, and you’re never getting that back. But there’s a fundamental question I’ve been asking: If I’m in debt, should I even have a credit card?

Plenty of news sources and bloggers have weighed in on this general question of owning a credit card.

Some advocate for little to none:

Have only one credit card with a low limit, and only one loan with monthly payment not exceeding 25% of income.

Cut up your credit cards.

Leo Babauta of Zen Habits (Link)

Others present a case for building credit and learning to manage them:

 If you really want me to give you a number of cards to have, fine… how about five?

John Ulzheimer for Mint.com (Link)

The reality seems far murkier than the pole positions would have you believing. My main credit card offers trip cancellation insurance, auto rental collision damage waivers, travel accident insurance, travel and emergency services, lost luggage reimbursement, trip delay insurance, baggage delay insurance, roadside assistance, price protection, return protection, and much more. If you even travel a bit or ever purchase a large ticket item, these insurances and protections are vital. I get all these things with no annual fee and 1% cash back on all purchases (with 2% back on dining). Not a bad deal, if I’m already going to make the purchases (non-affiliated link to Chase Sapphire card).

Therein lies the rub: If I’m already going to make the purchases. 

The reality is that these features are established to encourage spending – plain and simple. Everything about a credit card is framed around increased spend. It’s ease and culturally-sanctioned use exacerbates it. In fact, the demonization and haunting fears of losing cash or slowing down transactions have been propagated by the major credit processors (see the Visa Check Card ad below).

Without that credit card, you may have never gone through with the purchase. Buying an LCD TV at $300+ is a swipe away. But, it would be at least fifteen $20 bills – the payment and hurt of giving that concrete cash dissuades discretionary spending.

Where does that leave us? Seemingly, it’s in moderation that I must end. A credit card is an important tool to use carefully. Each time we reach into that wallet (or, in my case, rubberband), we must be conscious of the concrete loss of cash. The digital numbers being extracted from your bank account are real. The consequences of spending more are real.

For now, I’m keeping my credit cards. I’m in a managed debt situation due to student loans. Instead of cutting up my credit cards, right now I’m going out and consciously spending less. Because, in reality, the world out there encourages you to spend and spend. Cooking at home, reading a good book, spending time with friends and lovers, and exercise are all so much more meaningful and make it impossible to spend beyond your monthly budget. Let’s refocus on what matters to overcome the debt.

 

Filed Under: Best Credit Cards, Loans Tagged With: bad, Barclaycard, credit cards, debt, loans, Wallet

Apply For $50,500 Worth Of Scholarships In 70 Minutes

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The budget doesn’t add up. In the simple equation of money minus time, there’s not enough of either. Personally, it’s the single greatest reason why graduate school is hard. As a graduate student in a traditionally debt-laden field, those around me seem to treat debt as the norm. But this de facto acceptance of debt – the status quo – is no longer tolerable. Maybe, despite all my efforts, I won’t be able to balance the budget. Maybe, despite all my efforts, the loans will grow – building on the principal and metastasizing into financial prison.

Time to excise this. I’m done with debt.

As the semester wraps up, this is an inherently challenging time to look for funding opportunities – especially scholarships. But I’m desperate, and thought a look would be worth it. Most of what I found appeared to be junk or spam-related entities looking to get your email address and have you register to signup for a “No Essay” scholarship. Nonetheless, I decided to apply to everything I could in one day. Here’s what happened.

My search started and ended at FastWeb.com (Link). While this may be a great resource for a scholarship search, it’s congested with spammy advertisements for companies and colleges that will bleed you dry. In between the advertisements, there are decent scholarships. The end of spring semester is hardly a great time to start applying for scholarships, but that is all part of the experiment (look back in the fall to see what new numbers I put up!). There are very few scholarships for those in graduate studies. This, with the bad timing of the application cycle, made for a rough start.

After a little while I narrowed it down to a few scholarships that were relevant and I could actually apply to. Then, I began. In the course of 70 minutes, I applied to 7 different scholarships, which totaled $50,500. Most of the applications were short, no essay, monthly giveaways that felt like I was entering a hopeless sweepstakes. But a few of them seemed to have potential, and even made me think about what I truly believed via the essay. Over the next few months I will be scanning the web for new scholarship opportunities, and I’ll keep you posted if I receive some good news.

Scholarship Applications:

Gotchosen.com (Link)

  • $40,000 Gotchosen No Essay Scholarship
    • Time: 2.5 minutes (registration)
    • Difficulty: Easy
  • $1,000 Gotchosen Monthy No Essay Scholarship
    • Time: 2.5 minutes
    • Difficulty: Easy

College Prowler Scholarships (Link)

  • $2,000 “No Essay” Scholarship (Monthly)
    • Time: 5 minutes (mostly to register for site)
    • Difficulty: Easy
  • $1,000 College Survey Scholarship
    • Time: 15 minutes
    • Difficulty: Easy

Cappex High School and College Scholarships (Link)

  • $1,000 A GPA Isn’t Everything Scholarship
    • Time: 5 minutes (mostly for site registration)
    • Difficulty: Easy

Do Something: Don’t Be a Sucker Campaign (Link)

  • $4,000 Don’t Be a Sucker Scholarship
    • Time: 20 minutes (registration and taking pictures of unplugged appliances)
    • Difficulty: Easy to Moderate

Delete Cyberbullying (Link)

  • $1,500 Delete Cyberbullying Scholarship Award
    • Time 20 minutes (essay = 500 words or less)
    • Difficulty: Moderate

Total time: ~70 minutes

Total Scholarship Potential: $50,500

Filed Under: Loans, Make Money Tagged With: college, debt, loans, scholarships, school

I have $37,718.68 in debt. Would you marry me?

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Wedding Photo Would you Marry me
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Today, I logged into my Mint.com account. The number updates after a few seconds, as all my accounts come online. The transactions keep coming and the debt keeps accruing. There’s a big, bold number staring at me: $37,718.68 in debt.

Nowadays, when I look at the cup of Vanilla Chobani Greek Yogurt or tall coffee at Starbucks, I know it will end up costing me 6.8% more. Everything in my life will cost at least 6.8% more. Nothing is face value. Hello, student loan debt.

I am one of the privileged, fortunate souls where my undergraduate education was paid for by family. My parents and grandparents saved and saved – they compromised and cut-out from their own budgets to help me go to college. We never went on lavish vacations or purchased expensive things. We were a humble, middle-class family.

But now I’m in graduate school. Nobody expected I’d actually make it this far in my schooling – not even me. This is my second year in a doctoral program. The debt and interest is accruing, adding up, and spiraling out of control. People tell me it’s okay – that this is an investment – “you’re getting a Ph.D.!” In two years, I’ve amassed nearly $40,000 in debt.

I’m writing this to say it isn’t okay. Just because I’m spending the time to better myself doesn’t mean I should leave with six figures in loans. My partner recently asked how much I owe, what I might have by the time I graduate, and what my plan is to repay it.

I didn’t have an answer.

It prompted some sad questions: Would the amount of debt I have prevent somebody or scare them away from a serious relationship or marriage? Could debt be so burdensome, if shared, that people just avoid it at all costs?

The original question and the ensuing self-doubt prompted this post. This will be the first of many – a diary of sorts as I change this descending trajectory towards the pits of student loan hell.

Filed Under: Loans, Social Justice Tagged With: bank account, debt, loans, marriage, school, Student Loans

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