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I Owe $4,000 In Taxes!?

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Frugaling my way out of debt

I’ve been a student of some sort nearly all my life. I never worried about ponying up extra funds for a tax payment until 2013. And honestly, when I created Frugaling, I had nearly $40,000 in debt from credit cards, a car loan, and student loans. There was no way the taxman would give me anything but a fat return.

Then, a financial miracle occurred. In the summer of 2013, I began to make thousands of dollars in affiliate/ad revenue from Frugaling. The money poured in, and I was giddy. Finally, I could begin paying off all the debt — in record time.

I dropped all of it into student loan debt, and paid off nearly everything (finished the rest in 2014). My nerves calmed, and I could suddenly see freedom and future. Cheesy, I know, but my loans had dampened my spirits. Suddenly, I was renewed.

Ugh, self-employment taxes

As this new influx of funds padded my wallet, I unfortunately realized that by the end of the year, the taxman would be knocking. All of these funds from Frugaling were coming in untaxed — no withholding. These are self-employment taxes. Ultimately, this income must be declared and taxed at a penalty rate to pay for social services (i.e., Medicare, Medicaid, and Social Security).

After calculating all the money made and entering the numbers into TurboTax, the hypothetical refund reversed to a payment. The government wanted about $1,000. I sat there dumbfounded for a moment. All these advertisements and campaigns suggested I would “Get the biggest refund ever.” Those pesky self-employment taxes obliterated my student status.

It was a lesson in the difference between income and net worth. That year I had made over $30,000 between graduate student work and the website. I had barely any savings and negative net worth. Yet, I was being penalized for making money that could pay off financial aid faster. To me, it seemed preposterous that I was being taxed at a higher rate for this side income — with no net worth.

I owe Uncle Sam how much?!

In 2014, I paid off my remaining debt and my net worth has been hovering at a few thousand dollars. My stress over debt is non-existent, and I feel better than ever about my financial situation. But I’m not done with the struggle to make wealth while in graduate school.

I made over $20,000 “on the side” for Frugaling/business-related self-employment (I no longer make that kind of money, as I removed credit card affiliate links for now). After inserting my income and expenses into TurboTax, a shiver went down my spine. The numbers catapulted up over $4,000.

I’m fortunate that I’ve been saving for this moment. My savings account has enough to cover it, but my net worth will be swept away come mid-April. It feels awful to work this hard to save, make, and write. I have no net worth, and yet the funds I made will be disappearing.

But instead of letting this payment dampen my mood, I am more focused than ever on writing for you all, staying frugal and minimal, and building some real savings.

Filed Under: Loans, Save Money Tagged With: federal, Government, irs, Self-Employment, taxes, Turbotax

3 Lessons From The Great Recession

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“We learn from history that we do not learn from history.”
— Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel

Making and losing money during the Great Recession

In 2007-08, the stock market dove. We entered a massive “Great Recession.” I had a measly amount in an investment account and sold every stock. I couldn’t afford to lose any more. The panic was great and I followed it.

I held mostly cash, but bought a dangerous ETF that shorts stocks at 2X investment. For every dollar down in the market, I’d make two. Although, for every dollar up in the market, I’d lose two. By buying the ETF, my future would be tied to the demise of the global markets. It felt sick, but I was making money seemingly every day in the tough bear market. As others clambered to secure positions, I was profiting. The demise of other’s portfolios meant I was in the minority, making money.

At the time, I kept telling my mom to sell out of a large, inherited position in AIG. The major insurance company was spiraling out of control, and the public would soon realize how much debt the company hid. I wasn’t prescient, but dead set on her selling much of the position. The wealth was directly tied to the most risky industry.

Her financial advisor asked her to sit still. His sentiment was simple: don’t worry, don’t panic, and everything will be alright. I remember urging her over the phone, “Mom, you’ve got to sell at least a bit. The portfolio isn’t diversified and could be destroyed by this market.” She followed the trusted advisor’s approach and held on to the position. She stayed with the stock until it was a small fraction of the inheritance, and AIG was unrecognizable to its predecessor — what it used to be.

A reminder of the Great Depression

My grandparents had their own economic tumult: the Great Depression. They were a product of a time when food was scarce, fortunes changed, and many suffered. Both my grandmothers — at separate times — would talk about this time of disparity. They seemed weathered and changed by this period.

The Depression had a lasting impact. In their adult lives, they saved nearly everything, invested, and were constantly frugal. Eating out was a privilege — a true rarity even when they had wealth. They got creative with meals, celebrations, and travel. They learned to travel with and for less.

Not everyone suffered, though. A select few — the richest elite — continued to enjoy the spoils of wealth. Robber barons, corporate titans in the 30s and 40s, held disparate levels of wealth. They suffered, but not like most of society.

It wasn’t until President Roosevelt, his new deal, and World War II that the economic despair lifted. A vision for the future came into the picture. My grandparents served bravely, and were able to cultivate a middle class life afterwards. They were never “rich,” but always well. Their goals weren’t for mass consumption, but for peace and calm.

Lessons from a time of scarcity

Just like my grandparents before me, this generation’s financial calamity changed me. The Great Recession permanently shifted my life and that of my parents. The following are a few lessons learned along the way:

1. Who you know counts, but gratitude is greater

I left high school at the height of the Recession, and graduated college in 2011, as things began to look brighter. Still, I applied to countless jobs and found nothing. I submitted applications to Starbucks, Target, Wells Fargo, and a host of smaller companies. No one answered. The jobs were scarce, and money was tight. Everyone — including companies — became more conservative with their money.

A dean changed my life and gave me a chance. She gave me a paid opportunity to study and prep for graduate school in counseling psychology. I considered the offer, realized I had nowhere else to go, and embraced the opportunity. I’m forever indebted to her offer and help.

Without that helping hand, I’m not sure where I’d be, how much I’d be making, or if I would be the man I am today. An age-old lesson for business people is to network unmercilessly, but for me, I learned about gratitude. It’s vital that we remember who helped us succeed.

2. Modest living matters, skip the material mementos

I saw countless Americans lose everything material in the Great Recession. Crying families on TV and in documentaries exclaimed how they had lost everything. They were leaving houses — foreclosed on by banks that “afforded” them way more house than is necessary.

Those with modest means and mindsets braced through the economic tumult, but usually were able to maintain their lives. Those whose lifestyles were paycheck to paycheck or near their means suffered greatly.

Living through this time cemented a new ideal towards minimalism and reduction of material worth. Now when I travel, I try to avoid “collecting” and taking physical mementos. When I get something new (to me or the world), I research everything about it and try to buy based on value.

Last year I was interviewed by USAToday on the topic of buying homes. I might be a kook, but I don’t believe I want to buy a house unless I have all the cash necessary to do so. This Great Recession taught me to distrust debt and mortgages.

3. Save like it’s the last day on the job

In struggling to find work and seeing others do the same, I’m uncertain about my ability to hold one consistent job in life. Employers don’t necessarily have the incentive that they once had for employee sustainability. Everybody seems to be replaceable in this new, globalized economy.

While the unemployment rate has recovered from the depths of the Great Recession, salaries have stagnated or decreased. People are employed now, but they aren’t making what they once made.

Whatever reaches my pocket today, I’ll fiercely protect. But protection cannot mean selfishness.

Despite the economic uncertainty that will forever be a hallmark of my adolescence, I refuse to believe that we cannot continue to help each other. Whether that means serving and giving your time, or scrounging for a few dollars to give to charity, it’s still important to give selflessly.

Filed Under: Minimalism, Save Money Tagged With: Banks, Banksy, Financial, Great Depression, Great Recession, jobs, Lessons, Making, money, saving, Stock Market

Frugal Articles of the Week

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Every week I like to feature a few frugal articles that caught my eyes. Curl up in your favorite reading nook and enjoy. Hopefully these encourage you to live frugal lives!

The Stock Market Is No Place for Millennials by Eric Roberge
This article has one of the most controversial headlines, but a more subtle message. Time Magazine and its author, Eric Roberge, highlight a few reasons why the stock market can be unkind to Millennials. But the rules and lessons apply across generations: wait to invest until you have more money. Interesting argument, as media has repeatedly noted that the Millennials are not making much money.

Would You Be Content With Just Enough? by Michelle
Michelle blogs over at Fit is the New Poor, and I must say I’m a big fan of her work. Recently, she wrote about contentedness on her site. It’s a must read for anyone who’s struggling to feel like “enough.”

How Much Of My Income Should I Spend On Housing? by Stefanie O’Connell
Stefanie introduces to one of the oldest personal finance rules: keep housing costs to around 1/4 to 1/3 of your monthly budget. That means that if you make $1500, you shouldn’t spend more than $500 per month on rent. But something different happens in big cities. You can begin to save in other areas, as the rent escalates. Stefanie does a fantastic job outlining why you need to look beyond basic rent costs.

How Big Food Brands Are Boosting Profits By Targeting The Poor by Roberto Ferdman
This week’s roundup of articles includes a nasty one. Turns out big-name brands are packaging their materials in smaller containers and selling them at dollar stores nationwide. Unfortunately, there’s a big catch: dollar per ounce, it’s a fortune. This tactic is pretty nasty, and the poorest members of society are hurt worst.

Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day!

Filed Under: Save Money Tagged With: articles, Food, Frugal, housing, Income, Millennials, poverty, Stock Market, week

Be Here For The Process, Not The Outcome

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“This very moment is the perfect teacher, and it’s always with us.”
— Pema Chodron

Anything to feel better

In college, I was a first responder to an event that changed my life. It scarred me. In response, I sought treatment at the counseling center.

When I first walked into the door, I was desperate to “recover.” I didn’t want to feel pain. I didn’t want to feel sadness. I didn’t want to visualize tragedy anymore.

Frankly, I wanted to take a pill and make it all go away. I couldn’t help but feel far from being healthy again. Counseling seemed like a questionable endeavor, where the outcome was unclear. Still, I went.

Hammering home a message

My counselor continued to impart a message on me. Week by week, month by month, he worked to change my narrative. When I would jump to the outcome — the end goal — he would point it out. When I pointed out what I was desperate for in the future, he would bring me back to the present.

Slowly, after countless sessions, something happened.

I could suddenly digest my months.

Then, my weeks.

Then, my days.

Then, my hours.

Then, something clicked.

Becoming present for this moment

I became present for a moment — one solitary second of presence and oneness with the world. And there with my counselor, I realized what he was saying all along: be here for the process, not the outcome.

As much as I wanted all my problems to recede, fighting towards goals that might take years to realize was too challenging. But through daily intention, I could see a path in front of me — even if the end was not in sight.

Slowly (and I mean slowly), my anxiety, flashbacks, and significant mental concerns began to fade. They were background noise to my present-focused moments.

Money on my mind

After two years of graduate school and overspending, I launched myself into the world student loans, car loans, and credit card debt. There was nary a day that passed without a swipe of the card — a probing of my wallets nether regions to scrounge for my last pennies.

It was easy to amass nearly $40,000 debt. Unfortunately, seeing my way out of that hole was remarkably vague, unclear, and disconcerting.

I reverted back. I focused on what I wanted in the end — the outcome. I was pulled back at where I wanted to be, rather than what I could do today. I wanted to be out of debt again; to see my bank account with green coloring, rather than red.

Refocusing on now

Then, I thought about my counseling experience. I had struggled with sadness and recovery, finding it too difficult to digest the process. But it was the process that provided a path for success, health, and today… wealth.

Facing the debt was the first part of my financial recovery. I needed to sit with it, be uncomfortable by it, recognize my discomfort, and then take a bite — with intention.

Now, I’m taking my financial success one day at a time — just like my mental health. And frankly, I’ve never been wealthier or healthier.

Filed Under: Save Money Tagged With: anxiety, counseling, debt, Finances, loans, process and outcome

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