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Frugal Articles of the Week

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Today I wanted to feature a few frugal articles that caught my eye this week. Curl up in your favorite reading nook and enjoy. Hopefully these encourage you to live frugal lives!

7 Tips to Help Keep Your Resolution to Declutter by Joshua Becker
The new year is upon us! Lots of people create resolutions and goals, but few are followed. Joshua created a bulletproof list of 7 tips that’ll help you stay focused on decluttering and living with less.

Quit Whining About Your Sick Colleague by Daniel Engber
America has a productivity problem, and not because we aren’t working enough hours. The problem centers on overwork and overemphasis on the amount of hours put in at a desk. Engber skillfully takes the readers on a collision course with hand sanitizers and media hyperbole around the common cold, and then guides them to a treatise about work-life balance. Well worth a read!

How I Cut $10k in Spending in 2014 by Practical Cents
This month I’m going on a food diet. But in a different twist, I’m not watching calories — only my spending. In this article, Practical Cents breaks down how they cut $10k in costs over the past year. With an incredible table of savings and examples, P.C. makes it easier for readers to see how they too can save!

The Urge to Splurge by Sam (Yours Truly) Lustgarten
I won’t ruin the story, but I wrote about a recent date that was published on my favorite minimalism website, Becoming Minimalist. It centers on the external messages that we hear — both from individuals and advertisements. These messages can make us consume more than we would’ve otherwise. And can defeat our efforts at minimalism!

Breaking Broke by Stefanie O’Connell
Stefanie had a breakout 2014 and she’s looking to leave broke behind! In this stirring article, she talks about overcoming the stereotype of a broke, aspiring actor. She’s ready to take personal finance head-on and show readers how to make some incredible side income.

Filed Under: Save Money Tagged With: Article, Becoming Minimalist, Broke, Declutter, Frugal, minimal, Minimalism, Reading, saving money

8 TED Talks That Will Inspire You To Become A Minimalist

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Here’s a screenshot of my email account with zero emails! Happens twice a year. 🙂

I call myself a “frequently failing, but always aspiring minimalist.” There’s a powerful consumer drive inside of me, but I work effortfully to reduce its hold. Sometimes that means going to a store and picking up an item — temporarily — and then returning it to another shelf. I can be captivated by new things — quickly dreaming of what happiness they could bring.

When I’m really struggling to save money and stay minimalistic, I return to some favorite role models’ messages. The following are 8 of my favorite TED Talks on the subject of minimalism, living with less, and learning to love yourself in the process. Hope you enjoy!

1. Jon Jandai: Life is easy. Why do we make it so hard?

2. Mark Boyle: The Moneyless Man

3. Graham Hill: Less stuff, more happiness

4. Grant Blakeman: Minimalism — For a More Full Life

5. The Minimalists: A rich life with less stuff

6. Adam Baker: Sell your crap. Pay your debt. Do what you love.

7. Angela Horn: The Less You Own, the More You Have

8. Amy Henion: How can tiny houses offer the ultimate freedom to our generation?

Filed Under: Minimalism Tagged With: anti-consumption, Consumer, debt, less stuff, Life, Minimalism, minimalist, money, rich, tiny houses

Dating As A Minimalist

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Becoming a minimalist, then dating…

I recently joined an online dating site. This isn’t the first time, but it’s definitely one of the longest periods of keeping a profile and messaging people. The results have been surprising, and a couple of conversations may turn into more.

But my mind toils over my values. Something about joining a site and attempting to meet new people pushes me to buy new clothes, furniture, and conform to the idealistic picture of success. I switch to a basic consumer, and it goes against everything I’ve tried to accomplish with this website.

Joining the frugal frontier has led me to sell the extraneous and embrace minimalism (e.g., I’m actively trying to sell my remaining books, as I’ve switched to ebooks). Amidst this lifestyle shift, the cost of dating seems to be measured in more than a meal.

There’s a psychological change — for better and worse — associated with going into “dating mode.” That mode urges me to buy, buy, buy. Like a laser beam surveying my belongings, I scan my apartment for the out-dated and unimpressive.

Out with the old, in with the new?

Dating mode makes me think, “Maybe I should get a nice, full couch?” Yeah, that would really spruce up my apartment. Cost would be no object. I want something that speaks to my unique personality. I don’t want to stoop to some cheap, tattered, beat up couch — that’s not me. Moreover, maybe I should’ve kept my TV — because what would a couch be without one? It’s like I draw from a catalog every time I enter this state.

Dating mode pushes me to upgrade my wardrobe. Most days I think I have the perfect amount of clothes — providing style and warmth, and offering a wealth of options year round. But when I enter this other place, I see the fault in everything. I think, “Look at my pants! I bought these about 5 years ago. Why do I still have them?” In this warped state: “That shirt isn’t crisp enough. It’s gotta go.”

Dating mode suppresses my critical mind. All I can think about is the stink of old versus new. Everything is stale and worn out. As a mere extension of what I own, I feel stale and worn out.

There’s only one solution: own it!

Not only can my budget not withstand wanton purchases, but I left that life — intentionally. It took a significant leap of faith to buck the trend — what we’re told and sold by corporate America. The Ikea catalog and Macy’s mannequin sell a life I’ve always strived for, but it’s artificial and constructed for maximal spend. Unfortunately, I’m conscious that many people subscribe and aspire to this “perfect” home and wardrobe.

Does that minimize my ability to see and date people? Perhaps, but here’s the important part: I’m willing to take the risk that someone doesn’t like me for my aged wardrobe and accoutrements. This is who I am. I am an environmentally conscious minimalist. I’m frugal, clip coupons, and look for the generic brands. I’m interested in saving for a future. I struggle to spend without restrictions, as there’s an entire class of people — globally — that don’t have enough healthy food, water, and basic necessities.

There’s only one solution that fits my new lifestyle: to own who I’ve become. I can’t be ashamed of this life I’ve chosen and the new path I’m taking. I have loved paring down my wardrobe, selling my car, buying a bike, and sharing my story with people. Hopefully, someone will see that passion when the time comes.

Filed Under: Minimalism Tagged With: Clothing, coupons, date, dating, Frugal, Ikea, Minimalism, minimalist, online dating, Wardrobe

Picture All Your Worldly Possessions

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All of Gandhi's worldly possessions

I saw this picture for the first time the other day. It shocked me. These were all the possessions that this man had. Rather than feeling demoralized, he was calm and honorable in his actions. The items before you represented everything important to him: sandals to walk around, a watch to tell time, a foundational text for focus and intellect, and glasses for the simple necessity of sight. Stripped of everything extraneous, this man could be freed to become one of the greatest heros of all time. Before I talk about the owner of these possessions, let’s talk about our possessions.

What does your picture look like?

I don’t know whether to be saddened, inspired, apathetic, neutral, and/or happy, but I can now fit everything I own into a single room. Walking through my apartment, I almost expect to see a tumbleweed race across the linoleum floor. It’s barren. I don’t necessarily feel exceptionally positive, as there’s a societal expectation for stuff that I cling to.

Magazines like Dwell and websites such as Apartment Therapy emphasize how home designs affect emotionality. The model home is well-kempt, orderly, and colorful — energizing its inhabitants and providing a sense of calm. But despite these stereotypes and assumptions about design, by paring down my accoutrements, I feel calmer. With the extraneous emptied, I can focus and save for what’s important.

Even though I can fit everything into a room, it’s far greater than the preceding picture. Could I reduce my possessions even further? Perhaps.

What if your house flooded tomorrow?

This past weekend I traveled with a friend to Minnesota. It was my first time in the Twin Cities. I loved every minute. Before I left, I packed and scanned over my apartment.

Every time I travel, I look over the bag and apartment for missing items. I ask, “What am I forgetting?” Only one thing came to mind: I heard that my area of town may be flooded when I return. I moved two cheap electronics above the floor and left.

Leaving rapidly and with such efficiency made me think:

  1. That was faster than ever
  2. I feel really free
  3. I want to do that again and again and again

In the past, I worried about the condition of my possessions. Would they be safe? How long could I be away from home? This time, I didn’t hesitate — these things wouldn’t hold me back from hopping in my friend’s car and celebrating the holiday. If my house flooded — thankfully, it didn’t — I would’ve probably suffered some losses. But in the end I would be okay.

How do you make your picture look like that?

Many people own TVs, cars, and houses. The picture frame doesn’t seem to fit our countless commodities and material goods. We’ve amassed stuff to fill our homes and heads. We can’t even collect and commingle it all for a friendly picture. This leaves us open to feeling loss and ache.

The photo above is a collection of all Gandhi’s worldly possessions. Gandhi fueled a movement for Indian independence from British rule. His message was of peaceful civil disobedience. Today, he’s an inspiration for civil movements around the world. He only had about 14 or 15 items.

How many things do you need to live the life you want? How many products do you need to be happy and live with purpose? Oftentimes, buying more products limits our ability to live meaningfully.

When we crave for more than the picture frame can hold, money must be made. Suddenly, we are working harder, longer hours to consume more. It can come at the cost of our free time and life we want to lead.

Filed Under: Save Money Tagged With: Consumer, Consumption, Frugal, Gandhi, India, Mahatma, Minimalism, Possessions

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