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5 Ways Public Universities Are Swindling Students And Turning Into Private Businesses

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Sunset over the University of Iowa campus.

From public to private: The budgetary gap in American education

Public universities are generally funded by taxpayer dollars and the federal government. Contributions ultimately lessen the cost education for an individual, and help make a college education attainable for a greater whole. Tax revenues at the state and federal levels fell in recent years, and the share of tuition owed by students significantly increased — all while student loan interest rates skyrocketed.

This recipe has decimated our youth. We afford children the right to a free, public education from kindergarten to 12th grade, but when they graduate high school, the benefits evaporate. The voting public and politicians have argued that college is no longer a right; rather, an earned privilege to a select few (who can afford it).

Public institutions were supposed to be accessible and affordable to the people in state. Heck, there are land-grant institutions that were given vast acreages to educate future educations. Unfortunately, hawkish debt reduction tactics, private-interest groups, and misinformation campaigns created a climate that hated taxes — the consequence was the disintegration of our public universities.

A subtle shift happened over the last few decades, and it’s led to a massive, business-like privatization and profit-motivated aire amidst public universities. Suddenly, administrators are aiming at your wallet, rather than their intended goal: educating the finest group of students for many generations to come. The painful revenue gaps have led to a rise in tricky tactics.

5 business tactics that public universities use to supplement revenue gaps

1. International and out-of-state students are preferred

State schools accept more out-of-state and international students for full-price tuition and limited scholarship availability. This move effectively subsidizes the education of in-state students. Although, by accepting more students outside the state, fewer in-state students are accepted.

If you’re on the cusp of going to an out-of-state school, think about the price differential. Is it really worth the added tuition burden?

2. Degrees are created that offer no career paths

For instance, my alma mater had an oft-ridiculed bachelor’s degree entitled, “Liberal Arts.” This degree is useful as a temporary placeholder for students, while they make final degree decisions, but should not be a formal track. Graduate with a degree in Liberal Arts and you might as well use it for toilet paper.

Similarly, watch out for degrees in “General Studies.” Degrees like this simply milk monies from students and send them on their way without a lifeline. Avoid these at all costs!

3. Watch out for excessive, new construction projects

While these new architectural sights provide a heightened level of excitement to prospective students, they are only afforded through higher student fees and redirected public funds. Brilliantly upholstered and designed residence halls may attract new students, but everything has a price; last time I checked, enrollment and interest in college isn’t the problem, anyway.

If you don’t want to come to a university because hotel-like residence halls are absent, you are likely going to college for the wrong reasons. Much like the cliche regarding books, don’t judge a university by its buildings.

4. Massive interest in distance education programs

At a fraction of the cost to educating students on-campus, many public institutions have a growing body of administrators pushing for online education offerings. Stigma-be-damned, plenty of people are taking up the offer to be educated online. These institutions are frequently charging handsomely for the privilege of being educated online, and offer students little support when compared to their on-campus peers.

Steer clear of most online master’s degrees that purport to give you credentials — all while you are pantsless in a bathrobe at home. While you may be able to say, “Your Name, M.S.,” you’ll be missing out on various networking opportunities and paying some of the most expensive tuition rates available. Most online programs offer little funding, and public universities use these programs to further subsidize in-state students’ educations.

5. Financial aid offices don’t warn you about student loans

This is the scary one for me. It’s quite personal and disheartening that when I requested to get student loans, nobody ever explained to me how they worked. When I met to approve the federal aid a few years ago, I never had a human sit down with me and create a budget, set expectations, and explain how interest would quickly add up. While it’s my fault for not being more critical, I didn’t know what I didn’t know — the questions were not yet clear.

Pay attention to financial aid officers at universities. They usually have no interest in curtailing or slowing your interest in finishing a degree. There goal is to get you federal or private funding and keep you coming back to school — period. If you’re looking for student loan advice, start researching the perils and pitfalls before signing on the dotted line.

Filed Under: Social Justice Tagged With: bachelors, Budget, college, cuts, distance education, education, funding, masters degree, private, public, Student Loans, taxes, taxpayer, university

Love is a click away, but is it worth paying for online dating?

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Online dating: From stigma to commonplace

We sat in the high school parking lot, and I laughed every now and then — awkwardly I may add. David Gray blasted over the car speakers, and I squirmed with tension and anxiety. My hands felt sweaty, and I remember rubbing them on my pants to dry them off. After an impossibly long period of time — my mind spinning with questions — I leaned over and had my first kiss.

Dating was different back then. When I graduated high school in 2007, love and like were simple, in-person concepts. That was one month prior to Apple’s famous iPhone release. After that, the Internet was accessible everywhere. Everything completed IRL (“In Real Life”) could be duplicated online — a mirror.

Online dating started to boom in popularity and I heard news/rumors about this growing trend. Honestly, it seemed like it was only for old farts and socially awkward people. Dating seemed effortless in college. In a way, I thought you had to fail at “real life” to turn to online dating.

I had a huge bias: Why would anybody turn to online dating?

This is more popular than I thought

11% of American adults…have used online dating sites or mobile dating apps (Pew Internet Research)

By the time I graduated college, online dating was much less stigmatized. In fact, a shocking number of people have tried it. Based on U.S. Census numbers, that equates to about 33 million people in America who’ve tried online dating. TechCrunch reported that, “38% of people who are ‘single and looking’ have used a dating site or app.”

After I graduated college and was suddenly single, I decided to start my first profile. I was embarrassed to tell anyone. Uploading my pictures and customizing that profile made it real. I tried to represent myself as best as I could, but always felt askew — was this really me? Off and on throughout the years I joined dating sites and actually had some entertaining meetups. Slowly, my stigma began to disappear. Despite all this acceptance, I’ve never paid for online dating.

Should/would you pay for online dating?

Free dating sites have exploded in popularity among Millennials, and the options are plentiful. From swipe-to-date apps like Tinder to the question-and-match power of OkCupid, these sites are exceptionally popular with younger generations. OkCupid offers one of the largest populations of potential matches — all free. People can try out the site, message freely, and quit whenever they want. The intention and commitment is minimal, and the potential is great.

Stalwart dating sites such as Match and eHarmony charge monthly fees for access/communication with other prospective daters. Match.com offers an easy, free signup where you can look at matches, but you can’t send messages or get a phone number until you pay the fee. It costs about $35.99 per month to use this service. eHarmony provides a similar dating and match service for potential compatibility. The site offers a detailed personality inventory to gauge your needs in a potential match. To access these features, you’re looking at $59.95 per month. At these prices, it’s hard not to feel like they’re gauging your wallet to gauge your compatibility.

To pay $36 or $60 a month for an opportunity to meet someone is a scary amount of money — especially if you stay online for multiple months. But sometimes it’s worth the price. Paying for online dating sites is a proof of your intention and seriousness to other people. That monthly fee suggests you’re likely desiring a committed relationship. Likewise, that purpose attracts a community of people that can be hard to come by on free dating sites.

Unfortunately, the for-pay websites often use shady tactics to attract visitors and hook people with longer-term contracts. For instance, Match.com doesn’t show you who can receive messages. And eHarmony forces you to take a survey that takes about 30-40 minutes, suggests you’ll see your “matches,” but then limits how much of the profiles can be seen without a price. These tricky business practices scare me, and they should scare your budget. Here are some eHarmony reviews if you wanted to get some more information about the dating app.

When it comes to paying for online dating, I can’t imagine spending the money. Maybe I’ll eat my words someday, but I don’t want to spend money on something that’s available for free elsewhere — regardless of the overall intention among members. I’m excited that people are interested and open to meeting through new mediums, but I question the expense.

Would you ever pay for online dating? Have you noticed any difference between free or subscription-based sites?

Filed Under: Save Money Tagged With: apps, Budget, date, dating, eharmony, Free, love, match, Millennials, money, okcupid, online dating, relationships, smartphone, tinder

This Psychological Trick Will Reduce Your Online Shopping

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The rise of online shopping

Amazon.com went live in 1995. The site quickly became the largest online retailer in the world. Bookstores have been decimated by shopping online and ebooks. The war has largely been fought, and the brick and mortar stores are disappearing. Aside from making it difficult to find a book at your local retailer, shopping online can be a tremendous convenience.

The gateway to online shopping starts with your 16-digit credit card (debit, gift card, etc.). After every order, you’ll be required to enter your shipping and billing addresses, contact information, and your payment method. Credit cards are wonderful tools for these online shops, and they’re safer due to complete fraud protection.

There’s just one problem: convenience can wreak havoc on a healthy budget.

Credit card numbers are easy to memorize

They do it. This is aided by websites that save your billing information for later purchases. For instance, Amazon.com — by default — tries to save your credit card details. Then, when you go shopping again, you’ll just be able to select the card. In seconds, you can have your new products. It’s so easy on Amazon.com that they even have a one-click buy button.

You do it. I’ve been shopping online for years, and noticed only quite recently that I memorized a couple of my 16-digit credit card numbers. How? Excessive purchases over the years, but also a training process. Unless you’ve lost your card, had it stolen, and/or suspect fraud, your number generally doesn’t change. If you’ve had a credit card for years, you have more exposure to the same digits. Memorization is made easy and purposeful.

Delay the purchase, reduce the urge

Research shows (and trust me, Amazon is listening to it) that aiding consumers in making impulse buys equals more money. If I can reduce the time and effort to make you spend, you’ll come back and spend more over time and in single sittings. Pretty awesome if you’re a Fortune 500 company with a near-$400 stock price! If you’re an average Joe or frugal Jane, this can mean trouble. Here’s a two-step solution to this problem:

“Lose” your credit card. The first step is to call the credit card company and tell them you can’t find your credit card — you’re worried you lost it. Once you do this, they will issue you a credit card with new numbers. This will restart the number learning process and delay new purchases online, as you’ll be able to think more critically. After all, critical thinking takes time — you owe it to yourself. Note: you won’t be able to use the card anymore — you’ll need a backup card for a week.

Delete your details. If you’re an Amazon.com shopper, delete your billing details off the website. You’ll have to add them again at a future purchase, but having the inconvenience may actually mean less money spent. Give yourself time to think, “Do I really need this?”

Memorizing a credit card number — as the retailer or consumer — is trouble for a delicate budget. This simple psychological trick of slowing your purchase down can significantly reduce your spending and keep you on track for a frugal future.

Filed Under: Save Money Tagged With: Amazon, Budget, Consumerism, Credit Card, Memorization, money, Numbers, Online Shopping, Psychology, Purchases, research

3 Mind Tricks To Enjoy Life And Strengthen Your Budget

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That's me. I'm an extrovert. Can't you tell?
That’s me. I’m an extrovert. Can’t you tell?

I’m an extrovert. When I’m around crowds of people, I feed off the energy and feel excited to be alive. In a college town, with little else to do than drink yourself silly or try a new restaurant, I frequently opt for a moderate balance of both. Unfortunately, this is a black eye to my carefully crafted budget.

Participating in these social romps are one of the highlights of my weeks. Meeting new people and getting to know someone on a deeper level – there’s nothing better! But let’s face it, they do take a toll on my ability to pay off more debt. Sometimes I wish I could have the best of both worlds: social time and the frugal life. Thankfully, there are some simple mind tricks that help keep me within my budget and enjoying the company of others.

Pretend it’s a necessity

Most visitors to Frugaling are likely a part of two camps (look at me already dividing people): those who need to reduce their expenses and make more, and those who want to reduce their expenditures. If you don’t need to trim all the excess from your budget, you’re usually less inclined to do so.

The motivation for creating and following a budget is highly determined by your financial situation. The more stability you have, the more likely you’re going to be comfortable spending money on a night out with friends. Nonetheless, my guess is that if you visited this article, you at least want to reduce your expenses.

Maybe you have a little emergency fund, a great big checking account, and/or a sizable investment portfolio. Being frugal may be a life choice more than anything else. For me, I need to get my budget balanced, but I have this generous wiggle room that the federal government taunts me with: student loans.

When I’m out on the town and could pay even more for food, I think about my aim: I don’t want more loans. That places me somewhere between choosing frugality and needing it. For me, the trick is pretending like it’s a necessity to stay in budget.

For instance, let’s say I had $300 this month for food. That budget included everything from restaurants, fast-food, and even supermarkets. If I hit $300, I’m out of money for this month. More importantly, if I pretend and remember that that limit is a stopping point before catastrophe, I’m going to be very careful about where I put my money next. By pretending it’s a necessity, I realize how great the consequences of my actions can be.

Predict, plan around your social desires

Despite tricking my mind into realizing the necessity of a solid budget, there’s a humble need to share and socialize. Somehow, I want that to be filled. If most everyone is venturing off into the little downtown nightlife, I’d like to be able to go with them. Unfortunately, this is rarely friendly to my budget.

A night out on the town that includes dinner and drinks at a couple bars may cost about $40-50 after tips. Done once a week, and that eats away $200 a month from my budget. That’s not an option!

The trick here is simple: Know both your social and financial needs before the invite comes and night sweeps you away. If you’re gearing up for a fun, late, Friday night, there are a couple things you can do that will really add up:

  1. Eat at home, before you go out. Maybe get an appetizer when you’re at a restaurant with friends.
  2. Like those kooky college students always do: pre-game at home. By the time you’re out on the town, you’ll be ready to drink water instead of another expensive booze concoction.

Stories beat stuff

The great country of New Zealand has a wonderful advertising campaign to attract tourists. Ads feature young people skydiving, eating exotic foods, and experiencing the diverse geography of the Hobbits’ native land. All of the marketing centers around one tagline: “Stories beat stuff.”

All they’re saying is that you should get over materialistic wants and show the world what you’re made of! Rather than collecting another display piece for your home, a luxury car, or buying expensive jewelry, try running around, taking a random road trip, or flying to another country! Let these experiences fuel and motivate careful decisions regarding your budget.

It’s important to gain those experiences because ultimately they can help perpetuate and fuel a well-balanced budget. Debt destruction is easier when you’re psychologically well and whole. I guess what I’m trying to say is that every now and then, that night out on the town is a short-term loss for long-term gains.

Filed Under: Save Money Tagged With: Budget, Consumerism, eating out, Friends, fun, Materialism, New Zealand, NZ, stories beat stuff, Travel, Trips, Vacation

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